Grace

...this guy has it. After his wife, his two daughters, and his mother-in-law were killed by an F-18 crashing on his house, this is what he had to say about the pilot who ejected safely:

I pray for him not to suffer for this action. I know he's one of our treasures for our country... I don't have any hard feelings. I know he did everything he could.

Not a lot of people could face that kind of loss with that kind of grace.